If you’ve seen Bambi (who hasn’t?), you know that “twitterpated” is the word Friend Owl uses to tell the young animals that spring is coming and they will fall in love.


The three friends, Bambi, Thumper, and Flower, promise never to lose their friendship sanity just because of the shininess of the first pretty girl they see of their species.

I’ve been twitterpated by the shininess Twitter (@DianaBeebeTX, if you want to follow).  Can you believe it?

My use of the social media shiny is limited to a few friends, my alma mater (gotta keep up with the Frogs!), and my widening circle of writing friends.  I don’t follow any shows or celebrities, except Dr. Horrible because…well, just because.  I live in a fairly small, sheltered bubble.  I also try to think before I post. I hope I have not forsaken my sanity for the shiny that Twitter holds.

Free technology. No free lunch!

When I went to open house at my daughter’s high school, one of her teachers encouraged the students to follow his class (not him personally) on Twitter.  They could ask him questions about homework and projects.

I’m not ready for my daughter to be on Facebook.  She certainly isn’t going to be on Twitter any time soon.  (Thank goodness the Anti-Teenager is OK with that.)

So why was I surprised to hear that a student (already in trouble for drinking on campus) tweeted that she was going to attack another girl at school?  And she did attack her in a hallway.

A few days later, some students thought it would be “fun” to act up in the halls.  Rumor in the school is that it was a flash mob attempt, started on Twitter.  The school now has strict class change procedures with teachers lining the halls, one way stairwells, and extra security in the building.

Because a few young teenagers misused Twitter and acted on the misuse.  Did they get twitterpated by the shiny of tweeting–can’t see beyond their little circle of tweeps like Thumper who wondered off with the first cute girl rabbit who batted her eyelashes at him? Did they think that no one else would see that one tweet because of an @ mention to a specific person? Not a lot of thought goes into that kind of twittiness.

This was not an Arab Spring.  There was no higher purpose. There were kids misbehaving and making the school miserable for the rest of the students.  According to the school, two students were arrested (no details were given, of course).  Public tweets and videoed assaults are hard evidence though.  Students were told more trouble would follow if anything else was posted.

You would think that as tech savvy as teens are these days that they would also understand that what they post is out there.  They can’t take it back on Twitter.  Their thoughts, motivations, and pictures are there for all the world to see.  Their teachers and potential employers can see it, too.

New users on Twitter are not that different than a teenager in lurve for the first time. Now give Twitter to a teen who doesn’t realize that more people than the tweeps who follow them can see what they post, or maybe they don’t care.

I remember being twitterpated in high school. I didn’t always think through my actions when I was in lurve. *bats eyelashes* Thank goodness I didn’t have to deal with social media as a kid…

As someone fairly new to Twitter, I still wonder if something I post makes me sound like a twit. I’m not so new to being twitterpated that I hit send everytime I think of something to post. Twitty and witty are two different things.

Until Mission Impossible technology catches on, what gets tweeted is out there for the world to read.

There are companies out there that are creating “This message will self-destruct” applications.  You pick the time table–5 seconds or 6 days.  An article on NPR about a startup called Wickr that is doing this for iThings.

The technology isn’t there for everyone to use yet.  So until our emails, tweets, and Facebook posts can self-destruct, we need to teach our kids how to behave. If you know teenagers who are twitterpated with Twitter, please make sure they are using it wisely.  Heck, make sure that you’re using it wisely, too.

That’s not always easy when adults in high government positions get caught in scandals because of things they’ve posted.  They were twits twitterpated by their own perceived cyberspace bubbles. You know who they are.

If you’re a parent of teens, do you even know if your child is on Twitter?  If so, are you following him or her?  Are you monitoring phone and web activity?

11 thoughts on “Twitterpated

  1. Ryan King

    When my son got his iTouch last Christmas, I set him up an email address so he could use the Apple Store to get apps and such. I have the password to it. Maybe 6 months ago I see where my son signed up for Twitter and I of course followed him so that I can keep up with what he’s doing. He knows not to tweet unless it’s to me. He likes to see the tweets from Alton Brown and some other people. My wife was upset at first and had him remove the app but he’s added it back now. I watch him and as long as he doesn’t use it beyond reading, I’m okay with him having it. He’d probably have a Facebook account if he could figure out how to create it (he couldn’t). But we’ve already told him no Facebook.

    1. Diana Beebe Post author

      Yep, you have to watch, don’t you? They know where to found the apps! My husband and I joke that our 7 year old will be on Facebook before her older sister. It’s probably not true, because she’ll have to wait until high school.

  2. Dennis Haynes

    I have a twitter account and have tweeted once…I think. Some churches and movie theatres are now employing a technology that blocks cell phone use within a particular range. What, oh what would it be like if schools employed that? Kids would have to…gasp…pass notes? Wait (gulp) to talk to their friends at lunch, before/after school? Actually…wait for it…TALK to their friends vs. texting to them across the table??? There is going to be some messed up generation coming up if things don’t get sorted…just sayin….

    1. Diana Beebe Post author

      Write notes?! What!? 🙂 The school did have limited service at the school this week. They encourage kids to bring their phones and tablets to school now–for educational purposes only, of course. Sigh.

  3. Angela Wallace

    When I first got on FB and Twitter, it felt like I could say anything. I mean, it was this huge social media party where I could try to make friends without them seeing how big a dork I am in real life. I’ve since become more careful about the things I post. So often I’ve thought of complaining about something or talking about something that annoyed me, but I stop myself. Negative posts aren’t an image I want, plus it’s out there forever. For some things (like yesterday I was so mad about something), it’s better I express my feelings verbally to someone I trust. It’s in the air for a split second, and can’t come back to haunt me verbatim.

    1. Diana Beebe Post author

      We can be dorks together! LOL. Great point about expressing yourself to someone you know and trust rather than the entire world. There have been a few times when I typed up a tweet and then canceled it because of that same reason. I hope things are better today!

  4. mysticcooking

    Great post – I am totally with you on this, and I’m so grateful I graduated college before Facebook and Twitter became so big. I think it’s much harder to have a filter when you’re a kid because you just don’t realize the consequences for broadcasting everything. Social media might make some things much easier, but it also seems to make growing up that much more of a challenge.

  5. Debra Kristi

    I’m so glad I finally made it over here. What a great post, Diana! I totally agree with mysticcooking. I think I would be one of those outcast kids that avoided fb and twitter if I were growing up in today’s world. I avoided it prior to a year or so ago. It definitely comes with a learning curve and it still scares the heck out of me. One stupid typo and you can look pretty daft. And I am most excellent with the typos. 😀 I’ve seen friend’s kids on fb, some have even friended me, but not mine – not yet. Although mine does have his presence out there in the gaming community. My husband keeps an eye on that. I’ve considered setting up email for him so that he could talk to some of his friends that have recently chosen the home schooling method, but haven’t made that plunge just yet.

    1. Diana Beebe Post author

      I’m glad you made it over! It still feels a bit odd to me to be online on FB and Twitter. 🙂 I’m great with the typos, too. I know I’ve made some incredible ones.

      I’m so glad that I’m not the only one who is in no rush for my kids to be online.

  6. jolenenavarro

    For my oldest daughter it was MySpace. We didn’t allow it. she would go to a friends house and create one. We would make her delete it and she would create another. She is very social, always has been, she is 22 now and I follow her on FB – for some reason she has never liked twitter. We have talked and talked about image and perception. Our family is very connected with each other and I think my extended family is closer because of facebook. I have also reconnected to people I haven’t seen it a long time. The other day I got very excited about finding a High School friend that now lives in Amsterdam. My daughters where talking about how they will always be connected to their high school friends because of Facebook. They wont have to track people down for reunions the way we do. In some ways I think social media has made us closer to people.


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